Human sexuality is an interesting thing. The first time that you willingly have sexual intercourse a path is set forward. Your body remembers it. Your body craves it.
Those people that have had a healthy sex life find it hard not to cross the line in the dating world. Kissing gets out of control... Hands start to roam... And before you know it... There you are in the middle of a sexual relaitonship.
This actually gets pretty interesting. Emotions are tied to sex for some... And it's hard to get out of a relationship once you've crossed that line.
Okay... Why am I writing all of this?
Because Lisa and I have agreed to not have sex until we are married. But... We both have a relational sexual past. Kissing leads to roaming hands leads to grinding into each other as she's pressed against the wall...
But, we have agreed (my idea that she has agreed with) that this is the direction that we want to go.
It's interesting.
We are forced to actually show restraint. To occupy our time continuing to get to know each other. I think the longing to cross this line is making us closer.
It's different.
I like it.
1 comment:
Perhaps if we all took into account just how special sex is supposed to really be between two people, then we wouldn't have this generation of sexual overdrive. I applaud you and your significant other. We all need some similar type of restraint in our relationships.
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